HIGH SCALE ABUSE OF WOMEN

 HIV-infected man is paid £3 a time to have sex with children 


 Eric Aniva, a Malawian in his forties, is what’s known as a ‘hyena’ – a man paid to have sex with young girls as a form of ritual cleansing. Sexual cleansing involving ‘hyenas’  is common practice in southern Malawi- and women are required to participate in it at various points in their life, including if their husband has died or if they have an abortion. Shockingly, young girls are sent to ‘initiation camps’ by their families before puberty, where they are taught how to have sex. Then, they are forced to have sex over three days after their first period to “to avoid infection with their parents or the rest of the community”. And there is no thought given to health concerns – as tradition dictates that condoms are prohibited, and it’s believed that the ‘hyenas’ are disease-free due to their good morals. As a result, the practice puts young girls at risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases including HIV, which is carried by one in 10 people in Malawi. In an interview with the BBC, Eric, from Nsanje, a district in southern Malawi, explained that he has slept with over 100 girls and women after becoming a ‘hyena in 1995’ – and has five children that he knows about. He said: “Most of those I have slept with are girls, school-going girls. jailed “Some girls are just 12 or 13 years old, but I prefer them older. All these girls find pleasure in having me as their hyena. They actually are proud and tell other people that this man is a real man, he knows how to please a woman.” Appallingly, even though he claims he carries out fewer cleansing rituals than in the past, Eric admits he is HIV-positive –  but he keeps that to himself when families approach him for his services. And although government officials are against the practice, there is no official policy to protect young girls in the region. Dr May Shaba, permanent secretary of the Ministry of Gender and Welfare, explained: “We are not going to condemn these people. But we are going to give them information that they need to change their rituals.” Meanwhile, Chrissie, a community elder who arranges the initiation camps, told the BBC: “There’s nothing wrong with our culture. “If you look at today’s society, you can see that girls are not responsible, so we have to train our girls in a good manner in the village, so that they don’t go astray, are good wives so that the husband is satisfied, and so that nothing bad happens to their families.” 

However, not all women feel the same. Fanny, one of Eric’s two wives, explained that she hates the practice, and she is scared her two-year-old daughter will have to endure it in 10 years’ time. She told the BBC: “I don’t want that to happen. I want this tradition to end. We are forced to sleep with the hyenas. “It’s not out of our choice and that I think is so sad for us as women.” 

Observations:
This is not a new story but a sad commentary on the fate of women especially young girls in Africa. What kind of stupid culture is this? By infecting these young girls numbering over 100, this wicked man and stupid culture, have ruined and seriously wounded their future and pride.

MAN KILLS LOVER OVER CONDOM

(Vanguard) Man kills 38-yr-old lover for keeping condom in her bag

 By Gabriel Enogholase & Alemma-ozioruva Aliu BENIN

Four days after a 19-year-old man stabbed his girlfriend to death for accusing him of infidelity, a 38-year-old mother of three has been killed by her lover after he found condoms inside her handbag in Benin, the Edo State capital. The victim, identified as Gladys Okoh, was said to have parted ways with her husband before she started dating her killer, Osarwinda Idumwonyi, who was said to have stabbed her thrice with a kitchen knife inside her aged mother’s room. The incident happened at 13, Ehiyoboy Street, off Aifuwa Street, off Upper Sokponba Road, Benin, few hours after she allegedly left her lover’s residence, where she had passed the night, not far from her mother’s home. The suspect is currently in Police custody at the State Criminal Investigation Department, SCID, Benin. The suspect was alleged to have walked past the deceased’s aged mother, who was sitting by the door, and attacked his lover. A source at SCID disclosed that the suspect told the Police that it was her deceased lover who first picked a kitchen knife to stab him when an argument ensued, but that he overpowered and killed her in self-defence.   

Observation:
What led this young man to kill his lover is nothing but sheer jealousy. While I condemn the dastardly act, I still don't understand what a 38-year-old woman will be doing with a 19-year-old. I think, it is so wrong. As they saying goes in Nigeria, "shoe get size. "

TRUE DEFINITION OF A WOMAN

EVERY WOMAN IS:

W- A true wonder, winner and great worker
O - Beautiful Organizer
M- Mother of man, manager, multiplier
A-Amazing,amenable,accommodating
N - Necessity, nurse

BEWARE OF THE SPIRIT OF JEZEBEL

BEWARE OF THE SPIRIT OF JEZEBEL

If you are dating a person with this kind of evil spirit on them, they will try and get you to marry them. Until you do, it will come across as good so it can lure you into its web. Once, you marry such a person, then the evil traits will emerge and all hell will let loose on your life.

If you are a woman dating a man, Who is a physical abuser, many times, he will not show his true colours until after you marry him. It is then that the actual abuse will start. Having totally gotten you in his web of marriage.

Vital lesson
Almost every wife abuser both physically and otherwise has the Jezebel evil spirit and should go for deliverance.

If you are a man dating a woman who has this kind of spirit on her, she will say and do all the nice things as you are dating her but once you marry her, that is when she will change automatically, coming directly after you, so as to tear you and the marriage apart.

Just before you say I do, please pray.

If you are a woman anywhere in the world, praise God because you are a glorious model. God created you specifically for the purpose of excellence. You are a daughter, wife and mother. You are the major building block of humanity and without you, it would be an incomplete  world.
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